How do mistakes help you learn

Researchers discovered that students were more likely to correct their initial errors during a final test if they had been highly confident in them. Why did this happen? Researchers speculate that students focus more attention on corrective feedback when they are both confident and wrong and perhaps surprised by their error.

Bottom line: If we embrace and even study errors in our classrooms, students may actually learn more. However, there is a glaring caveat here: This only works if students have the emotional resilience to respond to mistakes adaptively and flexibly. When children worry that they are making too many mistakes or possibly failing at something, the emotional fallout can be difficult to manage.

According to UC Berkeley professor Martin Covington, the fear of failure is directly linked to self-worth, or the belief that you are valuable as a person.

Covington found that students will put themselves through unbelievable psychological machinations in order to avoid failure and maintain the sense that they are worthy. Here lies the larger challenge: How can we help kids to accept their errors and failures, particularly in school, so that they might translate this skill to the real world? So consider providing options to kids who may need a little space to flounder. Persistence can be learned.

I can be kind to myself and know that I will find my way through this challenge. Students are motivated to try their best when teachers they feel attached to value academic tasks.

However, having high academic self-worth and practicing emotional suppression in the face of mistakes were not linked to resilience. If teachers can help their students focus on skills and strategies that enhance resilience , students will learn to cope better, recover more quickly, or at least start heading in that direction.

However, there are good reasons to rethink our approach to mistakes so that we can help our students to ultimately benefit—both academically and emotionally. There is even beauty in vulnerability. It gives us space to find our strength. In the trial-and-error condition, they were shown the first word and had to guess what the second word could be.

The participants were asked to recall their words after a minute break. In the rote memorization condition, they had a recall rate of 54 percent. While both are wrong, the first is closer than the second to the correct answer: Justin Trudeau is the prime minister of Canada. Even our smallest choices have power, so it is important we pay attention to the integrity of the choices we make every day.

Mistakes can be a signal that our words and our actions are out of alignment. In that case, we can re-examine our intentions, reconsider our commitments, and adjust our actions.

Mistakes teach us to engage in our lives -- to live fully. We are not our behaviors and we are more than our mistakes. We can remember that our history does not have to predict our future.

And then remember that we have an opportunity to go all in--to participate fully. Many people, when faced with a big mistake, begin to pull back--to retreat. Instead, we can use the failure as evidence that we are growing, risking, and stretching to meet our potential. Mistakes help us to remember that we are not content to play it safe. That we understand that without risk there is sometimes no reward. Mistakes allow us to inspire others. They may be inspired when we are courageous and make our private struggles public.

They might decide to live differently. When a lifelong smoker who's dying of emphysema talks about the value of being smoke-free, we're apt to listen. The same kind of contribution also occurs when we speak candidly about less serious mistakes. As parents we can teach our children that it is OK to fail because we are willing to let them see our failures and mistakes. This gives us opportunities to talk through what we could or would have done differently.

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